Interview Elders About Their Life Stories

Wisdom lives in the people who’ve walked before us.

Our elders hold stories that can’t be Googled. They carry memories of how things used to be, lessons learned the hard way, and insights that can soften our own journeys. Interviewing an elder is more than asking questions — it’s bearing witness. It’s saying: “Your life matters. And I want to hear it.”

How to Do It:

1. Choose someone in your circle or community.
   It could be a grandparent, a neighbor, someone from your church, or a resident at a local senior center. You don’t have to know them well — just approach with genuine curiosity.
2. Ask if they’d be willing to share their story.
   Let them know there’s no pressure — just a desire to listen. Some might light up right away. Others may need a little time to warm up.
3. Prepare thoughtful, open-ended questions.
   Here are a few to start:
• What was your childhood like?
• What’s one lesson you’ve learned that changed how you live?
• What advice would you give your younger self?
• What are you most proud of?
• What do you think the world needs more of?
4. Bring a notebook, recorder, or just listen.
   If they’re comfortable, record the conversation (audio or video) so their voice and words can be preserved. If not, take notes with care and attention.
5. Share their story (with permission).
   You can turn it into:
• A blog post
• A printed storybook or keepsake
• A community bulletin or newsletter
• A quote series to share with others

 Tips:

• Bring tea, snacks, or something cozy to create a relaxed atmosphere.
• Be fully present. Put your phone away. Let them feel truly seen.
• Ask follow-up questions like “How did that feel?” or “What happened next?”

Why It Matters:

When we honor our elders, we bridge generations. We remind them — and ourselves — that their stories matter. We carry their lessons into the future. And we strengthen the invisible thread that holds community together: remembrance, respect, and shared humanity.